Will they really make a difference on a persons credit? Would it be easier to call the bank and tell them to take back the house before you ever fall behind on a mortgage? I have a friend who lost his job and doesn't know what he's going to do, no one wants to buy his house more than what he owes and he wants to get out of it. And if he goes through with a short sale or foreclosure, is he better off just declaring BK as well since it takes many years to recover from that anyways?